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Many veiw marriage/relationship with a young girl as a captive and deprivation of the teen to grow to a full capacity[maturity]. In today's society, they are referred to as "dirty old man or sugar daddy" And to some, so long as the teenager is of legal age, it's fine with them.
Marriage/relationship to a teenager or younger woman lacks the design to be each other's mutual comfort and entertainment. There is no bound to be good humored, affable, for giving and joyful; with no respect to each other's failties and perfection. Please, don't get me wrong. There is no greater thing for two human soul than to feel that they are joined for life -to- strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each other to feel others in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pains. But you cannot achieve this when the age difference is of a teenager and an adult. Those who marry/relate to this under age marriage only underastands marriage/relationship in the biological contest rather than the sociological and pyschological aspect of it. The total package.
Here is a quote from a Biafranigerian, an African that is. " "As for being old, I am an African and as such as long as the girl is of legal age, I'm not too old for her"
This is the most disgusting,despicable, perverted and voyeuristic statement I have ever heard. This is from someone who is possibly or probably college educated and should have weighed in all factors. What this person is saying is that it is ok to marry a teenager, so long as that teen is lawful under the color of the law. Is this morally or mentally a right choice, taking into account the lack of maturity and the compatibility of the younger mate. Who is the master and who is the slave.
Is this African culture or plain old taste for pervertion????
Hail Biafra
[ January 22, 2003, 01:35 AM: Message edited by: Waypoint1Biafra ]
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I will not be surprised to find out that you are a pervert, and you are like one of the old men you describe. Soon, you activities in the closet will be in the open. Every day for the thief, but ....
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Folanke, It will be better for you to sneak out in the open and tell WPIB how much you love him instead of following him about thread to thread.
___________________ He likened the second coming of Christ to the realisation of the Biafran dream, stating that at a time people least expect, the much sought Biafra would be a reality..Rev. Fr. Cornelius Ezeiloaku Posts: 622 | From: santiago, chile | Registered: Jan 2002
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